I don't believe in divorce / No creo en el divorcio

I’m not sure when did I decided that when I get marry, it will be forever.

No estoy segura de en qué día y a qué hora decidí que si me iba a casar, sería para siempre.

Maybe was because I grow up with separated parents since I was a baby, but in my memories a “father” never was missed.

Tal vez fue el hecho de crecer con padres separados desde que era una bebé, pero en mis recuerdos un padre nunca me hizo falta.

Maybe was because I had an elementary school in a catholic school, maybe it has influenced me in the way I see marriage, as a sacrament to be respected until the day of death.

Tal vez fue el hecho de tener mi educación primaria en una escuela católica haya influido en que vea el casamiento como un sacramento que se debe respetar hasta el día de la muerte. 

Maybe was because I grew up watching Disney movies, love, where everything ends with the major love expression: Marriage.

Tal vez fue el hecho de crecer viendo películas de Disney, de amor, donde todas culminan con la máxima expresión de amor: Casamiento.

Maybe I was born with a romantic gene that is ruining my vision regarding marriage.

Tal vez fue el hecho de nacer con un gen romántico que está estropeando mi visión respecto al matrimonio.

Maybe is because I  keep very, very inside me the desire of start a family in a house with a huge yard and let me tell you, in that picture, divorce isn’t there.

Tal vez es el hecho de guardar muy pero muy dentro de mí, el deseo de formar una familia en una casa con un patio enorme, y déjenme decirles, en esa imagen el divorcio no va.

Maybe is because I believe in true love, an endless love, unwavering trust, unbreakable commitment and mutual support.

Tal vez es el hecho de creer en el amor verdadero, en el amor interminable, en la confianza inquebrantable, en el compromiso irrompible y en el apoyo mutuo.

Maybe is because I want to create a beautiful story for my grandchildren, that can grow with both grandparents and they will not have to say they only have one grandpa.

Tal vez es el hecho de crear una bella historia para mis nietos, que puedan crecer con sus abuelitos, que no tengan que decir: Sólo tengo un abuelito.

Maybe is because I want to do it better in name of all failed couples in the world.

Tal vez en el hecho de que quiero hacerlo mejor, en nombre de todas las parejas fallidas en el mundo.

Like I said before, I’m not sure, but today I still believe in the same thing: I don’t want to 

get a divorce.

Como dije anteriormente, no estoy segura, pero hoy en día sigue creyendo en lo mismo: No me quiero divorciar.

Love,

I'm loving me - Are you loving you?

It has been a long time since I could sit down and write a post for my beautiful blog. I feel ashamed with you, I cannot face you after being away so long and I honestly do not think there is a big excuse that can save me.

Ha pasado mucho tiempo desde que pude sentarme a escribir un post para mi bello blog. Siento vergüenza con ustedes, no puedo darles la cara después de estar tanto tiempo ausente y sinceramente no creo que haya una excusa tan grande que me pueda salvar.

A lot has happened in my life, at work and home, this month I realized how difficult it is to make decisions.

Han pasado muchas cosas en mi vida, tanto en el trabajo como en casa, este mes me di cuenta de lo difícil que es tomar decisiones.

Let me talk you about it. In late December I decided to move to another city in late January 2015, alone, but as time progressed, my plans have changed.

Les voy a platicar. A finales de Diciembre yo tomé la decisión de mudarme a otra ciudad a finales de Enero 2015, sola, pero conforme avanzó el tiempo, mis planes han ido cambiando.

The first change that occurred was that I had not started the process of certification, I cannot go without starting it, so I said ok, I can wait until mid-February, no problem.

El primer cambio que hubo fue que no había empezado el trámite de titulación, no me puedo ir sin haber empezado, así que dije: ok, me puedo esperar hasta mediados de febrero, no hay problema.

(Before the second change good news came despite all the chaos, I have found a place to stay in the new city, so it seems until today)

(Antes del segundo cambio, surgió una buena noticia dentro de todo el caos, ya encontré lugar dónde quedarme en la nueva ciudad, así parece hasta el día de hoy)

The second change occurred past Monday 26, I had an appointment with a nutritionist because I felt I was too fat and so, I am so fat that I'm a perfect candidate for diabetes and any type of cancer, I was extremely sad and motivated at the same time, so the date is postponed until March.

El segundo cambio ocurrió el lunes 26, tuve cita con un nutriólogo porque yo sentía que estaba demasiado gorda y así fue, tan gorda que soy candidata perfecta a diabetes y cualquier tipo de cáncer, salí muy triste y motivada a la vez del consultorio, así que la fecha se posterga hasta Marzo.

In addition, throughout this process at work have been significant changes in management, everything went very badly.

Además, durante todo este proceso en el trabajo ha habido cambios importantes en administración, todo se puso muy mal.

All this has me worried, but first is my health and I cannot go leaving pending things, I cannot start my new goals completely focused on them.

Todo esto me tiene preocupada, pero primero está mi salud y no puedo irme dejando cosas pendientes, no podré empezar mis nuevas metas completamente enfocada en ellas.

In recent days I came home in a bad mood, with neck and back pain and headache, also when driving I had self-defeating thoughts, I was hurting myself, I was so immersed in planning, making decisions that I forgot to loving me in the process.

En los días pasados llegaba a casa de mal humor, con dolor de cuello, espalda y cabeza, además cuando conducía tenía pensamientos autodestructivos, me estaba haciendo daño, estaba tan sumergida planeando, tomando decisiones que olvidé darme amor en el proceso.

Thanks to this, I gained weight because I did not love me enough so I put my health in risk and I don’t want to die. Please, anyone reading this, do not forget to love you every day, and don’t be so hard on you because everything is reflected. In the office, my coworkers always tell me that I look tired, unhappy, they are always trying to cheer me up; I said in vain that it was from fatigue but I didn’t get to analyze what it is so powerful that it gets to reflect on me.

Gracias a esto aumenté de peso, gracias a que no me quise lo suficiente puse mi salud en peligro y no me quiero morir. Por favor, quien lea esto, no se olviden de quererse todos los días, no ser tan duros con ustedes, porque todo se refleja. En la oficina ya me dicen siempre que me veo cansada sin ganas, siempre buscando animarme, yo ilusamente decía que era por cansancio pero no me puse a analizar de donde viene, y por qué es tan poderoso que se me nota.

Do not forget that the number 1 priority is you and at the end is you.

No olviden que la prioridad número 1 eres tú y al final tú.

By the way… Do you remember?

Por cierto… ¿Recuerdan?

Love,

Work Relationships and Why I don't like it

Since 2013 I joined the working world, my first job was at a newspaper as journalist, I was very happy there, journalism is my thing but I found out something about me: I'm against work relationships.

But why?

Well, in that job there was a designer that I felt he was like trying to flirt with me and I felt scared, uncomfortable, I didn't like the feeling,  rather than flattered I was worried.

The reason for my feeling is that I loved my job and after I realized his intentions I went to the office everyday feeling uncomfortable and that is not cool.

Like it or not, work is where we spent most hours of the day, you see your co workers more than your family, they are your second family, that's the reason why you have to have good coexistence, maybe not friendship but a relationship of respect and tolerance.

In my current job it happened again, but I was able to stop it before it went any further. He flattered me a lot, I think there is a certain amount of compliments that do not pass the limit of normal, so I told him a little white lie:
When he told me I looked pretty, like anime, I said: "hahahaha, thanks, my boyfriend (I don't have :( ) and my friends say it a lot".

Holy remedy, he never said to me things that may seem inappropiate. 

I do respect those who  have even found the love of their life at 3 desks away, but for me it does not work and I think it won't.

Share with me your love story if you fell in love with your co worker or your boss! Maybe I will change my mind.

Love.

Let's Blog Every Day - September!

I was checking Bloglovin  and I found this awesome dynamic!

You can check it out by clicking it and participate with me and a lot of people :D seems really fun. This was like destiny because I woke up today thinking: I should blog everyday or more than 2 times per week haha and this is perfect! 

Let's start!

Monday, Sept. 1: Reintroduce yourself to your readers. Tell us what you want to get out of blogging everyday in September.

#LinksDay 4

1.- Tips For Having the Best Evening Workout Ever .- I like to go running on afternoons, and I think is something a lot of people is doing, I hope you finde this help to your training days.

2.- #GIRLBOSS .- This is a super good book, actually I'm reading it and I feel powerful. No one can stop me (cool)

3.- How to Stop Procrastinating .- I don't know about you, but this happens to me everyday, I don't know what to do, I'm bored but I have important things to do, here are very helpful texts.

4.- 25 Things People in Healthy Relationships Don’t Do .-  Now days are a lot a cases of abuse inside relationships, mental and physical, for your health, I recommend you to take a look to this article.

5.- FLIGHTS: MY TOP MONEY SAVING TRAVEL TIPS.-I'm currently planning my vacations in July, so if you are planning to, pass by this awesome article.